Status Anxiety Book

â??Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories. The firstâ??the story of our quest for sexual loveâ??is well known and well charted. . . . The secondâ??the story of our quest for love from the worldâ??is a more secret and shameful tale. And yet this second love story is no less intense than the first.â?This is a book about an almost universal anxiety that rarely gets mentioned directly: an anxiety about what others think of us, about whether weâ??re judged a success or a failure, a winner or a loser. This is a book about status anxiety.Alain de Botton, best-selling author of The Consolations of Philosophy and The Art of Travel, asksâ??with lucidity and charmâ??where our worries about status come from and what, if anything, we can do to surmount them. With the help of philosophers, artists and writers, he examines the origins of status anxiety (ranging from the consequences of the French Revolution to our secret dismay at the success of our friends) before revealing ingenious ways in which people have been able to overcome their worries in the search for happiness. We learn about sandal-less philosophers and topless bohemians, about the benefits of putting skulls on our sideboards, and about looking at ancient ruins. The result is a book that isnâ??t just highly entertaining and thought-provoking, but that is genuinely wise and helpful, too.Read More